...is a friend indeed.
This is happening to me a lot recently and it's really starting to piss me off. I barely see anyone because I work so much and the emotional difficulties at home mean I can't really go out either.
I don't see ANYONE or hear from ANYONE for months. They all know what's going on with me at home and at work, yet I still hear nothing. Not even a 'How you doing?" text.
But as soon as they want something, I'M THE ONE THEY CALL. Well, I've got two words for you. FUCK OFF.
It's been like this for years because in the past I always said yes. Simply because I had nothing else going on, no commitments and I never turned down the opportunity to help a friend out, cos god knows we've all been in the situation where we need to ask someone for help.
But this is just TAKING THE PISS.
I'm not doing this anymore. Why? Because I get NOTHING back. Ziltch, Zero, Nadda, Nothing.
I am not going out of my way and drive you on a 120 mile round trip and just because it'll be helping you out. I offered my help in the past and you didn't want it. Because you thought you could get it better somewhere else. And what happened then? You came to ME FOR HELP.
Not again. No.
Can you tell I'm angry?